Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Thankful- Out of the Mouth of Babes

I am thankful for many things. First, I am thankful for my family because thay love me. I am also thankful for my toys because I can play. I am also thankful for God because he made the world. I am thankful for my frinds (friends) because thay are nice. And I am thankful for Jesus because he died on the cross.
Avery Waters
November 2008
2nd grade

Couldn't have said it better myself. :) Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!

Monday, November 24, 2008

What's The Scoop

Product #1
Mary Kay Mineral Make Up


I'm a less is more kind of girl when it comes to makeup. Although I have found as I get older, I require more where makeup is concerned. I had tried the mineral powder last year and liked it but for whatever reason I just wasn't hooked. A few months ago, a sweet lady at church who happens to be a Mary Kay consultant talked to me about their new line of mineral makeup. She encouraged me to try it again and I did. And I'm hooked.

You can get the Mineral Powder Foundation for $18 and you have to make a one time brush applicator purchase (it can be cleaned with your mild facial cleanser and used for a long time) of $10. The thing I love the most about the mineral powder is how light it is and feels when you are applying it. You never get that "caked" on look. Its very natural looking.
I use the facial highlighting pen ($18) which acts similar to concealer but also adds dimensions of light in those areas that need them. For example, I have some laugh lines around my mouth that I added the highlighter too and they were not visible after that.
The mineral eye makeup is $6.50 and the cheek color is $10.
If you're in the market for a new line of makeup, I highly recommend giving this a try.

Product #2

I did a post last week on the gift of giving. We decided this year to help provide Christmas for a family who has a member with ALS. Over the weekend we received our family's information in the mail. They are local to us. The father is a man in his early fifties and the mother is in her forties. They have two daughters, ages 9 and 11. Her husband was diagnosed two years ago and is now at the stage where he is confined to a wheelchair. He can still eat, breathe and speak normally which is a huge blessing.
They own a farm and have had to sell part of it off over the past few years.
If you are reading this and feel led to give, please contact me. If you don't know how to get in touch with me, leave me a comment on how to touch base with you. The mother asked for gift cards to restaurants. The father is interested in books on CD or DVDs with his interests being in history, native Americans, and World War I and II. The girls love crafts and to read.
My family and I are planning to shop for them soon and would be happy to add to what we give them if you would like to help.

Friday, November 21, 2008

The Miser Brothers

We have a lot of Christmas traditions. Some are serious and some are silly. We like to watch all of the Christmas shows during the season but there is one that is a Waters family favorite. If you're around my age you'll remember it and probably even be able to sing along. If you haven't seen it, try to catch it this holiday season. Cut it some slack where the animation is concerned, it was made all the way back in 1974! :) Look for it in your tv guide. Its called The Year Without a Santa Claus.
And now for your viewing pleasure...

Thursday, November 20, 2008

The Gift of Giving

I know that's a corny title but it really is so true. There are so many great organizations that we can donate to throughout the year. Agencies that are in the thick of it out there in the day to day helping those who may not have even the most basic of human needs. Whether domestic or international, I would just encourage you to research a cause that you are passionate about and find a way to give. This year has been tight for most financially but money or material things are not the only way we can help. Donating your time is just as helpful.
Let's be the hands and feet of Christ.
Below are just a couple of links to some agencies that are near and dear to me. You can adopt an "angel" from the Salvation Army angel tree . Families of patients with ALS suffer huge financial burdens relative to the nature of the illness. You can adopt a family and help make their Christmas a little brighter. And an agency that meets people at their basic needs is the Nashville Rescue Mission.

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

What's The Scoop?


This week's What's The Scoop is a little different. I'd like for you to give me the scoop. My boys have asked for a trampoline for Christmas. We've checked around and found some with the safety enclosure feature included at pretty decent prices. We have several friends who have trampolines and the boys have a ball when they go play on them.
Every time I look at one, I run the pros and cons in my head. My biggest pro is that it will be something for them to do to blow off some energy. My boys NEED things to do that help them expend the endless amount of energy in their little bodies.
My biggest con is the fear of injury. My boys are rough and tumble and although we haven't been in a while (let me knock on some wood), we are no strangers to the emergency room. Boys are gonna be boys and I've learned to let them be. I just think the trampoline adds in a whole new dimension of possible injuries. That and the fact that when Avery broke his hand, the orthopedic doc said that the two things they see the most injuries with kids from are skateboards and trampolines.
So, what do you think?

Friday, November 14, 2008

From the Perspective of an Adopted Child


Bob and Joyce Childers adopted me when I was two months old. I've known from a very early age that I was adopted. My parents were very open about it and from the time I could sit and listen until I could fully understand, my parents would tell me. What did that mean for me growing up? Truthfully, not much. I didn't look like either of my parents or my brother but then there are lots of kids who don't look like their biological families. I couldn't tell you what hospital I was born in or the time of my birth but then little kids don't really care about that kind of thing anyway. I remember that for whatever reason (most likely he didn't read my chart before entering the exam room) that my pediatrician could never remember that I was adopted and would always ask my parents about history of diseases in their families- duh. :)
Other than that, I had two parents who really loved me and an amazing grandfather and grandmother. They never treated me like anything other than a part of the family. My mom's side of the family was very good to me. My dad's side of the family was not the same; however, I feel like I should insert here that his family didn't treat their biological parts any better. Long story short, you know God does amazing things in people's lives because I'm always amazed that my daddy turned out to be such a good man coming from his background.
I never had a big desire to find out about the woman who gave birth to me. I never harbored any ill feelings toward this woman. Actually, I was always thankful to her. I was thankful that she had chosen life for me even if that meant it was not a life with her.
I got married when I was twenty four. A few years after that, there was a petition filed that opened up adoptive records. Jim and I were thinking about having a baby and I told him I wanted my records to see if there was anything genetically I needed to worry about. Right after that, the files were closed again. It wasn't until I was nine months pregnant with my first son that I received a call to come and view my adoptive file. I was nervous walking in to the Department of Children's Services office. Jim went with me but I remember they would not allow him to go back and view the file. I walked back with a social worker. She began by telling me that many biological mothers would call back in from time to time just to update the file, especially with medical information. Mine had not. In fact, the social worker told me that my file was one of the smallest she had seen. Not a great start.
Before I was allowed to open the file, I had to sign an affidavit stating that I would not attempt to contact my biological family except through the Department. And with that signature, I opened the file.
There was my mother's name, Kay Marie Soper Teal. Soper was her maiden name. How funny that my middle name is Marie. My adoption was a closed adoption through the State so my parents could not have known that was my biological mother's middle name also. My mother was married previously and had a little boy from that marriage named Robert. She worked for the State in a secretarial position and because there was no such thing as maternity leave back then had to quit her job to have me. When she divorced her first husband, she and her son Robert moved in with her parents. She felt that she could not care for another child financially and apparently her parents were not excited with the idea of there being another "mouth to feed."
My name was Katherine Teal for the first two months of my life. My mother held me once and when I was cleared to leave the hospital I was placed in a foster home.
My father was just drifting through town. I have his name but I won't type it here. He knew about the pregnancy but chose to move on.
There was a little background on my maternal grandparents, the social worker's home visit notes, a crazy amount of court documents, and a hand typed letter made by my foster mother of my feeding and nap schedule. Bits and pieces of the home visit papers as well as a few other pieces of information validated a lot for me.
So the Department gave me two weeks to decide if I wanted them to pursue contacting her. I was nine months pregnant, very emotional, and so I decided that I just couldn't pursue that at that point. Logically I felt it would be understandable if she were contacted and didn't wish to see me. My heart just didn't feel that way and I just wanted to focus on having my baby and maybe look at that again later on down the line.
Here I am seven and a half years later, two precious boys, a wonderful husband, and an even deeper knowledge now of the sacrifice my mother made for me. When I held my oldest son Avery in my arms that very first time, I could not fathom the pain that my mother must have gone through at that moment. To hold me, to look into my eyes and then to hand me over knowing that she would never see me again. She would not see my first step, could not comfort me when I got hurt, would never hear me call her mother. How do you get passed that? Do you? At that moment I realized that one day I would try to find her and that whether or not she wished to see me, whatever her answer, that would be ok. That would be ok because I know for me, in order to hand my child over for someone else to raise I would have to cut myself off completely. I would. Otherwise, I would wonder every single minute of every day was my baby being loved, was my baby being cared for, was my baby better off for the decision I made.
So thank you Kay Marie Soper Teal. Thank you. I WAS loved, I WAS cared for, and I believe I WAS better off for the decision, for the sacrifice you made.

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Christmas Quiz

I love these kinds of things so I thought I'd come up with a few questions regarding the holidays. I look forward to reading the answers! I'll post mine in the comment section.

1. Your favorite Christmas Carol/song...

2. Your favorite holiday dessert...

3. When do you open Christmas presents- Christmas Eve or Christmas Day?

4. A holiday tradition you have...

5. Lamest Christmas present (oh come on! We've all received a few and maybe even given a few.)

6. Egg Nog or Boiled Custard?

7. Least favorite holiday food...

Monday, November 10, 2008

Burn Baby, Burn

I chose this title because this is what the kids were singing as we sat around the bonfire- Disco Inferno. Yeah- they only knew the "Burn baby burn" part. :) A few weeks ago, we had a bonfire cookout with the Whites. Ralph cleared us a spot and got a great fire going so we could roast hot dogs and marshmallows. The kids decided to dress in their Halloween costumes so they could play. Drake and Avery played Star Wars and Kinsey and Aidan played something that included the hundreds of dogs little Kinsey has. She loves her dogs!
The kids actually played so the adults were able to talk a while. When it started getting dark, we took turns telling scary stories around the fire. It was hilarious to hear the stories that the kids came up with. Actually, my scary story came true thanks in part to Ralph! We still love you Uncle Ralph. :)
A good time was had by all and we decided that it was the beginning of the annual White-Waters Weenie Roast.


What's the Scoop

Product #1
Star Wars Action Figures

If your boys are like mine, anything Star Wars just sends them in to a frenzy. They especially love playing with the little Star Wars action figures. The cheapest I've seen them is at Target and Walmart where they are between $6 and $7. I rarely shop at K-mart but was there today and they currently through the end of the week are having a sale on all their Star Wars action figures, $4.99. If you're looking for them, I'd hurry because they were going fast.


Product #2
The Millenium Falcon

I told you we are Star Wars crazy in our house. The Millenium Falcon I'm referring to is the huge over 2 feet one. We compared prices at several stores today and here's what we found. Target currently has the best price at $127. Its on sale so that will only last through the end of the week. Toys R Us has it for $159.99. Its a big ticket item and some people may think we are crazy for even considering purchasing it. The thing is we know our boys will get many, many, many hours of play out of it and its a gift for both of them that they will have to share.

Thursday, November 6, 2008

It's The Most Wonderful Time of The Year


I am usually an early shopper when it comes to Christmas. Typically I am almost finished by this time. I'm not sure what's happened to me this year. I have bought a few little things here and there but am no where near being done. In the past I've done most of my shopping online. It was just easier to browse online at Aidan's naptime than to drag him to a store and try to look for specific things. And I think you can find some great deals online.
But here it is the first week of November and not only do I have a minimal amount of my shopping done but I also have no idea what we're getting the boys or what I'm getting Jim.
So help me out...

Are you an online shopper?

What are you getting your kiddos for Christmas this year? (My boys have asked for a trampoline- YIKES!)

Do you like to get out in the madness that is the day after Thanksgiving? If so, what's the best deal you've ever found? And what's the earliest you've ever been out on the Friday after Thanksgiving?

What are you getting your hubby?

Monday, November 3, 2008

The Force is Strong with Us... It Is

We had a very fun Halloween night. Our friends came over and we trick or treated with our neighbors. Both boys are so in to Star Wars so Avery was Anakin Skywalker and Aidan was Captain Rex of the Clone Troopers. One of the highlights of their night was seeing a man in our neighborhood dressed as a Storm Trooper. Even Jason and Jim had to get their pictures made with him. Our neighbor Ms. Gege dresses up every year. She is dressed as pumpkin, passing out candy on her front porch to our crew.
Afterwards, we came back and the kids sorted their stash and even made some trades. And I'm off to the Y this morning to try and work off the 80 miniature candy bars I've eaten since Friday night. :)